This was born out of a fun challenge and invitation between friends to support and hold each other accountable for taking practical steps toward building a life they would truly choose.
Life is hard, beautiful and lovely, but challenging. Unexpected turns and hurdles can disrupt even the best laid plans. Being middle aged there has been enough time for more of these disruptions than I would have hoped. Although I’m not entirely sure I would have known where I’d want my life to go anyway. You wake up one day, or in my case, many days for years on end, and you can’t figure out how you got where you are, and worse, you don’t know who you are. Life has a way of sort of sweeping us along. All of us.
After years of pursing healing, it feels like the time has come to bloom.
My dear friend and I decided to answer the call to change. We agreed to take weekly steps towards not just rediscovering, or in some ways discovering for the first time, who we really are BUT also toward leaning into those discoveries and laying hold of something new. I would send a weekly prompt and we would both do it and share at the end of the week. We would also have follow up steps based on what we discovered as a result of doing the prompt.
It’s a scary but hope filled move of love toward ourselves and our lives. Believing for beautiful things to come.
In thinking about our first prompt I was led to consider sharing the idea with others. So, here I am. If you decide to take the challenge I hope you find it to be fruitful and are blessed by the results. Feel free to share in the comments or in DM and of course please ask questions if you have any.
As all journeys do, I’m sure this one will come with its complexities and resistance but I hope you chose to stay, face those moments, pass through them, and let your life take you to new places.




























